Sunday, March 20, 2011

PHOTOMANIA....

mood: excited
craving: to see my daughter and hug and kiss her.

Salam Alykom and hola to all my followers and readers out there.. My weekend as been busy and last night t I was supposed to go with my friends to eat, but I didn't feel like chasing my son everywhere.. LOL Where I go, he goes. So, we ended up having a quiet evening at home. :) :) :) My daughter will be back today, I can't wait, she's coming back from New Jersey I really miss her.. : / Azooz misses her a lot, too. On to my random PHOTOMANIA post... I hope y'all have a FAB Sunday...<3

Enjoy the different pictures I've taken. :) 

Emma, I'll never forget YOU. <3 <3 <3


 UAE, I heart YOU.

 All those years in Germany.... I can still smell the memories...

 I had a great time with you girls. I'll never forget this night.... Good times..........

 Breakfast time.. Thanks for all the great memories.. They'll always be in graved in my mind and heart....
 Blanca, I always enjoy my time with you. Let's do this again, soon.. <3

 Cheesecake night.... I won't forget... Will y'all? LOL

 My dear best-friend. I love you, Om Abooodie.... I miss you...

 I <3 you too, Nonnna....











 Salwa (Rawan) <3 What more can I say? :)


Three musketeers & brothers... Dad in the middle... <3


 My dear son, you're a gem.. Thanks for the most beautiful flower.. I'll cherish it forever... <3




 Chai haleb anyone? MmmmmMM


Om Aboodie, our times together are always gonna be with me.. Don't think I can forget our Escapades. =)

 A beautiful mess... 
each one was made with pure love...

never gonna forget that night....










Aisha, she still listens to her world on your gift... 


final whisper: all  those days you've been gone, your little brother and I slept in your bed. I've missed you so darn much and I can't wait to hug and kiss you... <3 <3 <3

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Thought for Thursday..

mood: Satisfied
craving: Pampering all over

 final whisper: I am happy & there is nothing you can do about it =)

Monday, March 14, 2011

If you really knew me, you would know....

mood: overwhelmed
craving: to get this week over with

Salam Alykom to all my Muslim sisters and brothers out there. Hola to all my non-Muslim readers. I pray everyone had a great start to the week. I had a very busy weekend. Spent Friday at the park with friends and on Saturday I took my son to a birthday party. That evening I had some friends over and cooked for them. Sunday, a couple of my friends came to visit me and one was from UAE, I haven't seen her in a long time. I cooked of course. No one goes away from my house hungry. So, yeah, my weekend was very busy.

  I'm gonna have a very busy week. My dad is having heart surgery. I would appreciate prayers, please. My daughter is leaving to New Jersey to visit my big sister for her spring break holiday. God, I'm gonna be lonely, just my son and I. I just want this week to end. So, I've just been making a lot of dua (prayers) and put everything in God's hands. All will be good. Alhamdulilah for everything. (thank God for everything). So, on to my entry.

I found this idea off this lovely girls blog and I thought to myself that it seemed like a really great idea for a post.

If you really knew me, you would know...

- My mom died of breast cancer when I was really young.

- I love 70's and 80's music. ( I think because I have two older sisters) LOL

- my childhood best friends were, Jessica, Margie and Carrie and Sabrina and I'm still in touch with them.

- My goal in life is to make a difference in others lives. I absolutely love hearing that I have changed someone, that I have helped them in any way...

- -I'm a little shy at first, but once I feel comfortable, I am really outgoing and very social.

- When my mom died, the only person that helped me get through our loss was my sister, Mona and one of my best friends, Veronica. Thanks for always being there for me girls. 

- I love animals

- I hate ignorant and racist people. 

- I hate television.

- if I really knew you, what would I know? <3

final whisper: I will miss you A LOT.....

Friday, March 11, 2011

The BEST news ever!

mood: Happy
craving: spending the weekend with my family and friends.... <3


First of all I wanna give a very, very, very BIG Salam Alykom to my little sister and my little brother. Why might y'all ask? Well, since I've been back from UAE they've asked a lot questions about my religion. Yesterday, I picked them up from school, along with my daughter, and my little brother just started asking a lot of questions, more than usual. I answered and he was so fascinated at some of the answers. I showed him and my little sister some youtube videos on Islam and he said," I want to become Muslim and I do believe." My little sister said the same. She said, I believe that there is one God and Jesus is not the son of God, nor God. They said, they believe Muhammad is the last prophet to all mankind. My dad is starting to ask, too. So, yes, they both took their testimony of faith last night. The Shahada.. :) :) :) I'm on cloud 9... Wouldn't you be?
These are the words my siblings said. 
La ilaha il Allah, Muhammad-ur-Rasool-Allah
(None has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah) 


I just remembered, when my little brother was little, we used to take him with us to the Masjid (mosque) and he used to say, Kristie, I wanna be called, Muhammad. :) :) :) I'm giggling about it now. What a great name. ;) So, his wish came true. Nine years later and he'll be 15yrs old in a couple of months. :)

So, welcome to Islam, little sister and bro... All your past sins have been forgotten.. Alhamdulilah (Thank you God) 
In other news, the weekend has started and it's a start to a great weekend. My friends and I will get together tonight, I'm thinking of cooking for them. :) Hoping my little sister, Georgette comes in from another state. I wanna have a small celebration for my my little sis and bro, and would be nice if she could be here , too. :) Since we don't mix, (men and women) my little brother will hang out with some of my friends son's who are also Muslim. The girls will all hang out here at my home. :)

Hmmm, I guess that's it for today. I pray all y'all have a GREAT weekend. :)

I ask Allah to make this journey easy for my siblings and to give them what's best in this life and the hear after ameen

final whisper: If you believe there is ONE God and that prophet Muhammad is the final and last prophet, don't delay..



Saturday, March 5, 2011

Dear Mr. Jim Glass.. :)

mood: Staaaaarving now!
craving: FOOD lol & cheesecake..  =p

Salam Alykom my brothers and sisters. Hola to all my non-muslim readers out there. I hope everyone is having a FAB Sat. :)
I received a private message from an anonymity named Jim Glass. Mr. Glass had a few questions regarding Islam. I will try my best to answser your questions. :)

"I wish you would tell me why you are Muslim... Have you studied Christianity?"
First of all- I know it's been repeated many, many times- but how many really know the meaning of Muslim? If you look it up in the dictionary, you'll find that Muslim actually means submission to one God. Islam was the last monotheistic religion to be revealed by God to Mohammad, after Judaism and Christianity (those religions revealed to other great Prophets, Moses and Jesus).

Mr. Glass, I'll tell you why I'm Muslim. As a young girl, sitting in the pews of a Catholic church, I often looked at the priest standing in front of us all, telling us that Jesus (this great, great man) died for our sins. He died to save mankind. Jesus was God's son. I switched my gaze to Jesus hanging from the cross above the priest's head- his head sunken, wreathed in a crown of thorns, nails through his hands and feet with a cloth barely covering his private parts. If Jesus was God's son, I wondered, why would God allow him to die? Wouldn't fathers do anything to save their sons from dying? So why did God sacrifice His son so easily to the Romans?
Wait... the priest said that "We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God.". Did that mean that Jesus was God, too? How can God (who is Jesus) sacrifice His son (who is Jesus); is that considered self-sacrificial? Suicide? And before Jesus who did Moses pray to? Jesus wasn't alive, so the only answer is God.

I confused myself with these kind of questions for as long as I could remember. I tried to read the Bible and it didn't register like it should have. What was wrong with me? I began to search for a little bit of truth. I read on Judaism, Christianity and finally, Islam. Islam, it seemed, clicked. Everything made sense. It wasn't like Catholicism, forever twisting words into something that didn't make sense, forever changing the words in the Bible. Islam was an easy path to follow: God was the All Mighty, the Magnificent, the Merciful. He was One. No partners, no sons. He revealed religion to great men, who believed in ONE GOD. Mohammad was chosen to spread Islam, to be the last Prophet. A kind of last chance for us to be at home with a comfortable mindset, with no twisting questions. God equaled One, not two.
I found myself at ease with that thought. And so I started to believe in Islam, a religion that finally made sense to me.

"Do you approve of the 911 attack that killed 3000 some of whom were from the Muslim faith?"
 I remember 9/11 clearly. I watched replays on the news of how the plane crashed into the Twin Towers, devastating our nation. Like any other human being, I was terrified. What kind of maniacs would do such a thing? I obviously didn't approve, nor did any other Muslim with common sense. Ever since then, the US has gotten the impression that all Muslims are terrorists. No, that isn't the case. They're called EXTREMISTS. They're found in every religion. Judaism has the Zionists. Christianity has the Ku Klux Klan. Islam could surely have a group of extremists too, right? It's isn't unheard of. But why were Muslims being grouped together like this? All Arabs, Muslims... considered terrorists! Of course, because of this American tragedy, all Arabs, were from then on, stereotyped.


"What do you mean about "saving" the world? Killing all the infidels?"
 There's a verse in the Quran that states that killing one person, is like killing all of mankind. In Islam, homicide is prohibited.
"...if any one slew a person - unless it be for murder or for spreading mischief in the land - it would be as if he slew the whole people: and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people.." 5:32
Every human being has the right to live. So it is for all religions, because they have given us rights.
Again, the Muslims who claim they're going to "save" the world are extremists. No one can save the world, except by God's Will.


"Also, as a woman do you not feel bad about how Islamic men treat you?"
The media portrays Muslim women as oppressed, insignificant beings compared to Muslim men. They feed us the idea that the men make them cover, that they beat them every day and that they're not allowed out of the house. Fortunately, that isn't the case.
When the Quran was revealed to Mohammad 1400 years ago, Muslim women got their rights along with a religion to follow.  If you follow Islam, just like if you follow Christianity or Judaism, you will always follow the laws of God. Those laws are: to treat women with respect and love. Islam gave me just that. Here's a quote from a Christian lady.

We Western women have been brainwashed into thinking that you Muslim women are oppressed. But truly, we are the ones who are oppressed; slaves to fashions that degrade us, obsessed with our weight, begging for love from men who do not want to grow up. Deep down inside, we know that we have been cheated.
 -Samantha Carter

God says in the Quran: ‘O mankind, We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another (not that you may despise each other). Verily, the most honored of you in the sight of God is the one who is most righteous” (Quran 49:13).

Mr. Glass and all others out there that have questions, I hope I answered your questions. I pray that you doubt Islam no more. It takes someone special to come and ask questions, I think it's the beginning of your journey. There is no compulsion in Islam.  We are here on earth for only one purpose and that purpose is to be slaves for God. Ask Him for forgiveness. 

final whisper: So you see, as a Muslim woman, I’ve been liberated from a silent kind of bondage. I don’t answer to the slaves of God on earth. I answer to their king. 
-by Yasmin Mogahed

A letter to the culture that raised me. :) GREAT READ. :)  

A big thanks to my beautiful daughter for brainstorming with me on this entry. Always a pleasure to talk to you about our religion, Amber. :) :) :) I love you.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Dance Like No One's Watching

mood: sleepy
craving: cheesecake factory with my kids and good friends. 

Salam Alykom my dear Muslim readers and Hello to all my non-Muslim readers out there, I hope everyone is having a GREAT week. I can't believe Friday is almost here. =) The entry today will be very refreshing. I hope everyone has a wonderful day and week. =)))))

Dance Like No One's Watching

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.

We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges.

It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza. He said,

"For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time... and remember that time waits for no one...

So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...

Thought for the day:

Work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching.

--- Author Unknown


final whisper: Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

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