Monday, April 16, 2012

Tell me a secret - part 2

mood: Energetic
craving: Peanut butter and Jelly ice cream.. Ben & Jerry's? : / 


Tell me a secret ...Salam Alikom (Peace be with you)  to all my Muslim readers and Hola to all my non-Muslim readers. It's the first of the week, I can't wait for the weekend. I hope all of y'all had a blessed weekend. To those overseas, one more day and your week y'alls day is over and y'all are closer to the weekend.. Hooray!

Now, on to my post of the day. This should be a lot of fun.



  Welcome, to the second round of "Tell me a secret" Y'all can go see the first one I started. :)

 Here are the rules, here's how it's played:   This is your big chance to anonymously share some secrets you've been keeping to yourself. I think it would be really interesting. They can be small secrets, big secrets, scary secrets, juicy secrets, depressing secrets..

There's no judging, anything and everything is valid.

 Here's how it works:  1) This is open to anyone who wants to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.

2) Post a secret anonymously, no names please.

 3) I don't plan to censor content or language. However I do reserve the right to remove anything which appears to be posted with the sole intent of offending.

 4) I am doing this because I know we all have secrets to hide, we all need someone to listen, and we all need to know that someone is going through something similar.

5) and remember... one of these secrets, will be mine.  So leave your secret below... for everyone knows, we all have secrets, big or small.




final whisper: “If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself.” 

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

There are times when I feel incredibly lonely and wish I were married to the man I loved and loved me back.. My parents won't accept him tho and I know I might never really love any man who came to my parents cuz he'd likely have a different viewpoint on stuff from me. It hurts so much and I try to remember everything is just the way it's supposed to be. :'( Alhamdulillah for everything. :)

Texan after UAE said...

salam alykom,

Sister, I ask Allah to give you what's best for you in your life. I'll be praying for you..

oxoxoox's Yes, Alhamdulilah for everything... subhana'Allah! we are so blessed to be Muslim and believe that Allah will not give us something we can't handle. <3

Anonymous said...

Hi... Mmmm i'v been busy lately thinking about this girl i mean .. She comes from no where and she grab my attention strongly i do'nt know why at the same time i am married and i have children i.love my family too much the problem is we barley know each other but i have a feeling to her
So what to do . Am i have to tell here about my feeling or i have to wait till a mircale comes and let me forget about her.. She anspired me and u could say that she enlight me for something i have forgot.. Thats all :-(

Anonymous said...

One of the reasons I was drawn to Islam originally is because I am a sex addict and I had no restraints. Alhamdulillah I've made massive changes but I am always afraid I am only a step away from being that person again. One reason proper hijab is so important to me is to keep me from that path because I love my religion too much to drag it through the mud.

Anonymous said...

i might be having bisexual feelings.i need help. :(

Anonymous said...

Jazakallah khair for making dua for me sister. I need it. <3

To the brother who has feelings for a sister and you're already married, seek Allah and make dua that He strengthens your marriage. Do not tell her you love her, please just do not. You will destroy your children's lives, and being the child of a dysfunctional family hurt me a lot and I wouldn't wish that on your children.

Anonymous said...

Thanks alot sis .. Jazak allah khairan... :-)
Yeah i have to seek allah... I love my family and they not desierve that...

Anonymous said...

Salam , I'd like to share my great fear of one day living alone , without a wife , I'm still young but the problem is how can I get married or be loved , I feel so ugly , and lots of people tell me I'm ugly ,fat ... And I want to love someone , I don't know what is to be hugged by a woman , my mother hates me . I'd like so much to hug a woman , the feeling to feel a sweet woman , that's so horrible each day to think if one day a woman will love me truly :(

A said...

Anonymous : This to the person who said people called them ugly and fat. i was really upset when i read this and just wanted to say that god made you beautiful and don`t forget that.You are unique in your own way and be proud of that.And inshallah one day you will find happiness,Just never give up.

Anonymous said...

A : Thanks for what you said , and sorry I didn't mean to make you upset ^^', but I mean how can I think in another way when lots of people told me , even my own family or "friends". How can I be proud ,because never in my life somebody told me "I love you , you are good-looking ,intelligent ..." . I think people like us just want to be loved and hugged , and even this we don't get it . I'll maybe have to face lonely years :( ...

Anonymous said...

my secret is that against what everyone else thinks, I live in very unhappy marriage. My husband is a great person but I am certainly not his match. But, we have children together so...I said yes to him for the sake of Allah so I count on Him. I find pleasure in other areas of life so it's allright.

A said...

Look Life is a test , people may not accept you and be horrible but who are they to judge you?The only true judge is god and if god does not judge how you look or by your wealth then who are they to say anything.And just smile,who knows maybe not today but tomorrow something will come along, just have hope and faith.And i am part of the human family so take it from me your beautiful and may god always keep you that way.Ameen.

Anonymous said...

A : Salam , whoever you are thank you , may Allah grant you paradise :) . Of course only Allah judges us , life is a test , if my destiny is to see other men hugging their wives , and me thinking how it's so good , so I have to accept it ... Sorry for being so "dark" but it's really what I see around me :(

A said...

Jazakallah.Everybody`s destiny is written down for us but we can change our fate by prayer.And how do you know maybe tomorrow or the day after somebody will come along inshallah. You don`t know what god has planed for you and remember allah is the best of all planners.And being closed minded is bad for you mentally.Just have hope and courage and live your life.
Peace and Love
A

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